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3/29/2009 6:21 PM (GMT-08:00)
PRLJM42 PRLJM42 Joined: 1/13/2006 Posts: 1337 Location: Arkham, US	Guys only thread i figure we should have our own thread too where we can talk boobies and sports and other manly things like buying flowers for when we make mistakes. i guess to insure no female wanders in these parts we need to establish a secret hand shake. Quote

3/29/2009 6:21 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Guys only thread

i figure we should have our own thread too where we can talk boobies and sports and other manly things like buying flowers for when we make mistakes. i guess to insure no female wanders in these parts we need to establish a secret hand shake.

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6/24/2009 12:40 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread I was watching The Superstars yesterday night. It's an iron man type competition among celebrities. I laughed so hard when model Joanna Krupa bitched out her team partner Terrell Owens. lol http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-AVdIuPNkk He's a big guy. I read that he's mean to his team members. She's a female, so she could get away with it. You can't see it in this footage, but on tv, T.O. was telling her,"I feel sorry for your boyfriend." lol Quote

6/24/2009 12:40 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Guys only thread

I was watching The Superstars yesterday night. It's an iron man type competition among celebrities. I laughed so hard when model Joanna Krupa bitched out her team partner Terrell Owens. lol

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-AVdIuPNkk

He's a big guy. I read that he's mean to his team members. She's a female, so she could get away with it.

You can't see it in this footage, but on tv, T.O. was telling her,"I feel sorry for your boyfriend." lol

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6/8/2009 12:42 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread sethsale wrote: If I saw someone attacking another person for no reason, I believe I would try and stop them, especially if the victim was a women or child. Maybe it's that defender/hero complex I hear about. But I also can't abide with bullies. Good for you for sticking up for people! I'm an only child, so I really never had to fend for myself at home. Quote

6/8/2009 12:42 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread

sethsale wrote:
If I saw someone attacking another person for no reason, I believe I would try and stop them, especially if the victim was a women or child. Maybe it's that defender/hero complex I hear about. But I also can't abide with bullies.

Good for you for sticking up for people!

I'm an only child, so I really never had to fend for myself at home.

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6/7/2009 11:56 AM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: Honestly, probably makes me sound like a wuss, I rather flee from the situation. I guess I have a flight mechanism rather than a fight mechanism. I prefer avoiding confrontation. No, it probably just means you're a better, non-aggressive person. You probably had a good family life. I was raised with siblings that always fought/wrestled each other... I have 2 older brothers, 2 younger and 1 older sister. I always had to sort of fend for myself, and it made me a little paranoid of others as well, like I am constantly waiting for some random stranger to attack me... lol. If I saw someone attacking another person for no reason, I believe I would try and stop them, especially if the victim was a women or child. Maybe it's that defender/hero complex I hear about. But I also can't abide with bullies. Quote

6/7/2009 11:56 AM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread

serenity5 wrote:
Honestly, probably makes me sound like a wuss, I rather flee from the situation. I guess I have a flight mechanism rather than a fight mechanism. I prefer avoiding confrontation.

No, it probably just means you're a better, non-aggressive person. You probably had a good family life.

I was raised with siblings that always fought/wrestled each other... I have 2 older brothers, 2 younger and 1 older sister. I always had to sort of fend for myself, and it made me a little paranoid of others as well, like I am constantly waiting for some random stranger to attack me... lol.

If I saw someone attacking another person for no reason, I believe I would try and stop them, especially if the victim was a women or child. Maybe it's that defender/hero complex I hear about. But I also can't abide with bullies.

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6/5/2009 10:35 AM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread sethsale wrote: I try my best to not talk behind someone's back, but if someone starts ranting about someone that I am a bit ticked at, I can't help but join in sometimes. I haven't seen anyone get in a fight since high school, and even then it was a very rare thing. I think they put something in the water in central Illinois to subdue us... I do remember seeing one girl fight in HS though, and I did see the hair pulling thing going on... not so much the clothes ripping. You ladies are pretty vicious though. The worst thing I would do to someone if they threatened me with physical violence is some Krav Maga style face smashing and gouging. It is funny to rant about the person. lol I would never participate in a fight. I had a girl punch my back at a concert since she wanted to cut in front of me in the venue. Luckily, she was shorter and smaller, so the blows weren't so bad. I couldn't bring myself to hit her back. Then when I went home, I saw that my shirt had gum smeared on my back! Then I thought I should have punched the bitch. lol Luckily, the shirt was satin, so the gum didn't stick. Honestly, probably makes me sound like a wuss, I rather flee from the situation. I guess I have a flight mechanism rather than a fight mechanism. I prefer avoiding confrontation. Quote

6/5/2009 10:35 AM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Guys only thread

sethsale wrote:
I try my best to not talk behind someone's back, but if someone starts ranting about someone that I am a bit ticked at, I can't help but join in sometimes.

I haven't seen anyone get in a fight since high school, and even then it was a very rare thing. I think they put something in the water in central Illinois to subdue us...

I do remember seeing one girl fight in HS though, and I did see the hair pulling thing going on... not so much the clothes ripping. You ladies are pretty vicious though. The worst thing I would do to someone if they threatened me with physical violence is some Krav Maga style face smashing and gouging.

It is funny to rant about the person. lol

I would never participate in a fight. I had a girl punch my back at a concert since she wanted to cut in front of me in the venue. Luckily, she was shorter and smaller, so the blows weren't so bad. I couldn't bring myself to hit her back. Then when I went home, I saw that my shirt had gum smeared on my back! Then I thought I should have punched the bitch. lol Luckily, the shirt was satin, so the gum didn't stick.

Honestly, probably makes me sound like a wuss, I rather flee from the situation. I guess I have a flight mechanism rather than a fight mechanism. I prefer avoiding confrontation.

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6/4/2009 9:18 PM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Guys only thread I try my best to not talk behind someone's back, but if someone starts ranting about someone that I am a bit ticked at, I can't help but join in sometimes. I haven't seen anyone get in a fight since high school, and even then it was a very rare thing. I think they put something in the water in central Illinois to subdue us... I do remember seeing one girl fight in HS though, and I did see the hair pulling thing going on... not so much the clothes ripping. You ladies are pretty vicious though. The worst thing I would do to someone if they threatened me with physical violence is some Krav Maga style face smashing and gouging. Quote

6/4/2009 9:18 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Guys only thread

I try my best to not talk behind someone's back, but if someone starts ranting about someone that I am a bit ticked at, I can't help but join in sometimes.

I haven't seen anyone get in a fight since high school, and even then it was a very rare thing. I think they put something in the water in central Illinois to subdue us...

I do remember seeing one girl fight in HS though, and I did see the hair pulling thing going on... not so much the clothes ripping. You ladies are pretty vicious though. The worst thing I would do to someone if they threatened me with physical violence is some Krav Maga style face smashing and gouging.

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6/4/2009 5:00 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread victhebrick wrote: Why cant most women get along? I met many females who have said they rather have male friends because they cannot trust their own sex. I never heard a male say that before about other guys. About the catfighting, I hate to see girls fist fighting, especially when you see a hand full of hair!!! Ouch! The only time when I hear some guys talk badly about another guy is when the other guy is arrogant and/or is a jerk. heh heh You guys do it sometime--can't stand the other guy. You know you do. lol Quote

6/4/2009 5:00 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Guys only thread

victhebrick wrote:
Why cant most women get along? I met many females who have said they rather have male friends because they cannot trust their own sex. I never heard a male say that before about other guys. About the catfighting, I hate to see girls fist fighting, especially when you see a hand full of hair!!! Ouch!

The only time when I hear some guys talk badly about another guy is when the other guy is arrogant and/or is a jerk. heh heh

You guys do it sometime--can't stand the other guy. You know you do. lol

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5/31/2009 1:37 PM (GMT-08:00)
victhebrick victhebrick Joined: 6/28/2008 Posts: 596 Location: Highland, CA, US	Re: Guys only thread Why cant most women get along? I met many females who have said they rather have male friends because they cannot trust their own sex. I never heard a male say that before about other guys. About the catfighting, I hate to see girls fist fighting, especially when you see a hand full of hair!!! Ouch! Quote

5/31/2009 1:37 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Guys only thread

Why cant most women get along? I met many females who have said they rather have male friends because they cannot trust their own sex. I never heard a male say that before about other guys. About the catfighting, I hate to see girls fist fighting, especially when you see a hand full of hair!!! Ouch!

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5/31/2009 12:09 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread PRLJM42 wrote: that is exactly why women will never rule the world, not the looks thing. but there have been studies that have shown time and again women will sabotage other women for no real reason. they make up things to be competitive about. girls really are a crazy bunch. I wish I could refute that, but I think it's true. lol Real reason is cattiness. That's what I think. Honestly, I have to admit that I'd be terrified to be in a fight with another girl. I think their fighting techniques are more brutal than how guys would fight. Most girls have a tendency to rip their opponents' clothes. And the scratching and hair pulling. Eek. lol Guys just punch other guys. They never rip off each other clothes off. lol Though, I would like to see that happen sometimes. Just joking. haha Quote

5/31/2009 12:09 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread

PRLJM42 wrote:
that is exactly why women will never rule the world, not the looks thing. but there have been studies that have shown time and again women will sabotage other women for no real reason. they make up things to be competitive about. girls really are a crazy bunch.

I wish I could refute that, but I think it's true. lol Real reason is cattiness. That's what I think. Honestly, I have to admit that I'd be terrified to be in a fight with another girl. I think their fighting techniques are more brutal than how guys would fight. Most girls have a tendency to rip their opponents' clothes. And the scratching and hair pulling. Eek. lol

Guys just punch other guys. They never rip off each other clothes off. lol Though, I would like to see that happen sometimes. Just joking. haha

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5/31/2009 11:48 AM (GMT-08:00)
PRLJM42 PRLJM42 Joined: 1/13/2006 Posts: 1339 Location: Arkham, US	Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: PRLJM42 wrote: i agree with the make-up thing. its unneeded most of the time. one of my all time favorite jokes goes like this. why do girls where make-up and perfume?? cause they are ugly and they stink! if youre ugly i can see wearing makeup, but i never got the idea of pretty girls covering their face with crayons. lol People think the grooming is to impress guys. In reality, it's to impress other girls. There's always going to be a competitive nature in females to look good. that is exactly why women will never rule the world, not the looks thing. but there have been studies that have shown time and again women will sabotage other women for no real reason. they make up things to be competitive about. girls really are a crazy bunch. Quote

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Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread

serenity5 wrote:
PRLJM42 wrote:
i agree with the make-up thing. its unneeded most of the time. one of my all time favorite jokes goes like this.

why do girls where make-up and perfume??

cause they are ugly and they stink!

if youre ugly i can see wearing makeup, but i never got the idea of pretty girls covering their face with crayons.

lol

People think the grooming is to impress guys. In reality, it's to impress other girls. There's always going to be a competitive nature in females to look good.

that is exactly why women will never rule the world, not the looks thing. but there have been studies that have shown time and again women will sabotage other women for no real reason. they make up things to be competitive about. girls really are a crazy bunch.

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5/31/2009 11:17 AM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread PRLJM42 wrote: i agree with the make-up thing. its unneeded most of the time. one of my all time favorite jokes goes like this. why do girls where make-up and perfume?? cause they are ugly and they stink! if youre ugly i can see wearing makeup, but i never got the idea of pretty girls covering their face with crayons. lol People think the grooming is to impress guys. In reality, it's to impress other girls. There's always going to be a competitive nature in females to look good. Quote

5/31/2009 11:17 AM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Guys only thread

PRLJM42 wrote:
i agree with the make-up thing. its unneeded most of the time. one of my all time favorite jokes goes like this.

why do girls where make-up and perfume??

cause they are ugly and they stink!

if youre ugly i can see wearing makeup, but i never got the idea of pretty girls covering their face with crayons.

lol

People think the grooming is to impress guys. In reality, it's to impress other girls. There's always going to be a competitive nature in females to look good.

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5/31/2009 10:39 AM (GMT-08:00)
PRLJM42 PRLJM42 Joined: 1/13/2006 Posts: 1339 Location: Arkham, US	Re: Guys only thread i agree with the make-up thing. its unneeded most of the time. one of my all time favorite jokes goes like this. why do girls where make-up and perfume?? cause they are ugly and they stink! if youre ugly i can see wearing makeup, but i never got the idea of pretty girls covering their face with crayons. Quote

5/31/2009 10:39 AM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Guys only thread

i agree with the make-up thing. its unneeded most of the time. one of my all time favorite jokes goes like this.

why do girls where make-up and perfume??

cause they are ugly and they stink!

if youre ugly i can see wearing makeup, but i never got the idea of pretty girls covering their face with crayons.

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5/31/2009 10:34 AM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread sethsale wrote: in. I'm wondering if anyone other than me notices these things... You're very observant! It's true about the bad boy image. I think some females like to change them, or they believe they can change them. Quote

5/31/2009 10:34 AM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Guys only thread

sethsale wrote:
in.

I'm wondering if anyone other than me notices these things...

You're very observant! It's true about the bad boy image. I think some females like to change them, or they believe they can change them.

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5/30/2009 6:00 PM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Guys only thread I've always heard "come for the looks, stay for the personality." Or at least those are the comments I pay attention to. The primary reason for me to start a relationship is for companionship or friendship. I've always considered myself, and been considered by others to be a lone wolf, but I really like to express myself sometimes. I enjoy it even more when someone tells me about how they feel. Getting to know a person, their drives, their nuances and ambitions, that's always been something I enjoy immensely. If they don't have anything going on up there, then they feel empty to me. I've met a lot of people like that, primarily ultra-professionals or people who have been brainwashed into the consumer lifestyle that we have hammered into us as a child, in school, work and by the media. You're not alone with the bad facial hair thing... And there are way to many guys around my age that smell/look like crap. Funny thing about it is that girls seem to fall all over them... Although they are usually the type I've described previously. I think it's the bad-boy vibe they put out that pulls them in. I'm wondering if anyone other than me notices these things... Quote

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Re: Guys only thread

I've always heard "come for the looks, stay for the personality." Or at least those are the comments I pay attention to.

The primary reason for me to start a relationship is for companionship or friendship.

I've always considered myself, and been considered by others to be a lone wolf, but I really like to express myself sometimes. I enjoy it even more when someone tells me about how they feel. Getting to know a person, their drives, their nuances and ambitions, that's always been something I enjoy immensely.

If they don't have anything going on up there, then they feel empty to me. I've met a lot of people like that, primarily ultra-professionals or people who have been brainwashed into the consumer lifestyle that we have hammered into us as a child, in school, work and by the media.

You're not alone with the bad facial hair thing... And there are way to many guys around my age that smell/look like crap. Funny thing about it is that girls seem to fall all over them... Although they are usually the type I've described previously. I think it's the bad-boy vibe they put out that pulls them in.

I'm wondering if anyone other than me notices these things...

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5/30/2009 4:39 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread Thanks for the well thought out response! My friend and I were talking about how you don't see attractive guys with unattractive gals. But then again, attractive is going to mean differently to people. I know guys won't comment, but gals can be judgmental sometimes. If they see a couple where the guy is the attractive one, they always question what the guy sees in her. I guess people aren't thinking about personalities and qualities in a person. I used to think that most guys didn't like gals who are intelligent. I was wrong. Most of the guys that I notice don't mind asking for help from the gals. It's more interesting to have a conversation with someone who has interests and knowledge. It's always fun learning from people. Haha The make up. I always hear from guys that they don't like too much make up or bad make up. I think the make up tends to come off and get everywhere. lol I do like make up but don't put it on so often. It would be tinted lip balm and blush. I don't bother with foundation and eye makeup. For guys, I expect good hygiene. lol Oh man, some guys really need to know about brushing their teeth and taking a shower. haha One of my pet peeves is bad facial hair. I think I get it from my mom. Well, I don't mind the 5 o'clock shadow or some facial hair, like goatee, moustache every once in a while. It's just the full on ZZ Top beards that get to me. lol And no soul patch, please. haha Well, for me, if I had a chance to go out with a good looking guy with zero personality, I'd probably put up about half an hour just to see what it is like to be with him. It's curiosity, I suppose. But if his personality is really bad and off putting, maybe the time spent will be shorter. lol Quote

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Thanks for the well thought out response!

My friend and I were talking about how you don't see attractive guys with unattractive gals. But then again, attractive is going to mean differently to people. I know guys won't comment, but gals can be judgmental sometimes. If they see a couple where the guy is the attractive one, they always question what the guy sees in her. I guess people aren't thinking about personalities and qualities in a person.

I used to think that most guys didn't like gals who are intelligent. I was wrong. Most of the guys that I notice don't mind asking for help from the gals. It's more interesting to have a conversation with someone who has interests and knowledge. It's always fun learning from people.

Haha The make up. I always hear from guys that they don't like too much make up or bad make up. I think the make up tends to come off and get everywhere. lol
I do like make up but don't put it on so often. It would be tinted lip balm and blush. I don't bother with foundation and eye makeup.

For guys, I expect good hygiene. lol Oh man, some guys really need to know about brushing their teeth and taking a shower. haha One of my pet peeves is bad facial hair. I think I get it from my mom. Well, I don't mind the 5 o'clock shadow or some facial hair, like goatee, moustache every once in a while. It's just the full on ZZ Top beards that get to me. lol And no soul patch, please. haha

Well, for me, if I had a chance to go out with a good looking guy with zero personality, I'd probably put up about half an hour just to see what it is like to be with him. It's curiosity, I suppose. But if his personality is really bad and off putting, maybe the time spent will be shorter. lol

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5/30/2009 3:56 PM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: I have another question for you guys. Would you put up with someone with a bad personality even though she's really gorgeous? How many days would you put up with the person? lol Let's say she's really bitchy and mean. If the person is not attractive but has a good personality, would you see yourself being attracted to the person? Or no. If someone is snobby I could never live with or perhaps even hang around them. In fact, there have been a lot of times that I have been attracted to someone, and upon meeting them, I was turned off by either their arrogance or total lack of intelligence. And there is a difference between ditsy/fun and stupid/unintelligent. If someone's interests and hobbies revolve around looking good, they won't hold my interest for a day. On the other hand, someone who cares about their personal appearance so little that they become horribly obese or never keep their appearance up, I would not be attracted to them. That would show to me that they don't value the opinions of other people. If I care enough about my appearance to exercise and eat smart, I'd expect someone I was dating to at least attempt to do the same. A lot of women that most guys consider unattractive, plain or average I find beautiful. It all depends on the guy. Some guys only like girls with barbie doll bodies, faces and fake hair color. I personally don't find that to be attractive. I've always liked more petite women or "realistic" framed women and not really gone with the "big breasts" thing, but that doesn't mean I only like one type of frame. It's just a preference. I really hate implants. Just be yourself, PLEASE! I like it when women don't wear makeup. They look really natural and vibrant. I understand that most women feel a bit exposed without it though, so I wouldn't expect them to do without it. As long as it's not overused, makeup can be cute though. Eye shadow for instance looks great on some women, and lipstick can work well too. As for outright looks, if someone is pretty plain but has a great personality, are genuinely interested in me, and are fun to be around, I am attracted to them. Making the other person feel good about him/herself is key to a relationship lasting IMO. I have a feeling that more guys than women put more importance on looks than personality, but maybe that's just my glorification (and hope) of the opposite sex. :) Wow, you ask a simple question and get an essay from me, as usual. Quote

5/30/2009 3:56 PM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Guys only thread

serenity5 wrote:

I have another question for you guys.

Would you put up with someone with a bad personality even though she's really gorgeous? How many days would you put up with the person? lol Let's say she's really bitchy and mean.

If the person is not attractive but has a good personality, would you see yourself being attracted to the person? Or no.

If someone is snobby I could never live with or perhaps even hang around them. In fact, there have been a lot of times that I have been attracted to someone, and upon meeting them, I was turned off by either their arrogance or total lack of intelligence.

And there is a difference between ditsy/fun and stupid/unintelligent. If someone's interests and hobbies revolve around looking good, they won't hold my interest for a day.

On the other hand, someone who cares about their personal appearance so little that they become horribly obese or never keep their appearance up, I would not be attracted to them. That would show to me that they don't value the opinions of other people. If I care enough about my appearance to exercise and eat smart, I'd expect someone I was dating to at least attempt to do the same.

A lot of women that most guys consider unattractive, plain or average I find beautiful. It all depends on the guy. Some guys only like girls with barbie doll bodies, faces and fake hair color. I personally don't find that to be attractive. I've always liked more petite women or "realistic" framed women and not really gone with the "big breasts" thing, but that doesn't mean I only like one type of frame. It's just a preference.

I really hate implants. Just be yourself, PLEASE!

I like it when women don't wear makeup. They look really natural and vibrant. I understand that most women feel a bit exposed without it though, so I wouldn't expect them to do without it. As long as it's not overused, makeup can be cute though. Eye shadow for instance looks great on some women, and lipstick can work well too.

As for outright looks, if someone is pretty plain but has a great personality, are genuinely interested in me, and are fun to be around, I am attracted to them. Making the other person feel good about him/herself is key to a relationship lasting IMO.

I have a feeling that more guys than women put more importance on looks than personality, but maybe that's just my glorification (and hope) of the opposite sex. :)

Wow, you ask a simple question and get an essay from me, as usual.

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5/30/2009 12:04 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread I have another question for you guys. Would you put up with someone with a bad personality even though she's really gorgeous? How many days would you put up with the person? lol Let's say she's really bitchy and mean. If the person is not attractive but has a good personality, would you see yourself being attracted to the person? Or no. Quote

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Re: Guys only thread

I have another question for you guys.

Would you put up with someone with a bad personality even though she's really gorgeous? How many days would you put up with the person? lol Let's say she's really bitchy and mean.

If the person is not attractive but has a good personality, would you see yourself being attracted to the person? Or no.

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5/27/2009 11:57 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread I have to smell lilac. Some men's fragrances can be really strong. I guess some men have strong body odor. There was a study where they said women found sweaty armpits from men arousing. I don't know about that. haha Quote

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I have to smell lilac.

Some men's fragrances can be really strong. I guess some men have strong body odor. There was a study where they said women found sweaty armpits from men arousing. I don't know about that. haha

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5/27/2009 11:06 PM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Guys only thread That's the thing with me, and I'm guessing a lot of guys; I don't really know "brands" of perfume/scents, I like things like citrus, general flowery stuff and especially lilac. I've always thought lilac was the most pleasant and beautiful aroma I've ever smelled. It just smells clean, sweet and just strong enough to not be overpowering. The "fresh" smell with guys makes sense. I never understood cologne... It just smells like gasoline with perfume dumped in. Dominating and sharp, and hard to relax when someone has it on. Quote

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That's the thing with me, and I'm guessing a lot of guys; I don't really know "brands" of perfume/scents, I like things like citrus, general flowery stuff and especially lilac. I've always thought lilac was the most pleasant and beautiful aroma I've ever smelled.

It just smells clean, sweet and just strong enough to not be overpowering.

The "fresh" smell with guys makes sense. I never understood cologne... It just smells like gasoline with perfume dumped in. Dominating and sharp, and hard to relax when someone has it on.

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5/27/2009 10:42 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread List of men's fragrances that girls/women like: Obsession by Calvin Klein Eternity by Calvin Klein Marc Jacobs Drakkar Noir Cologne by Guy Laroche Very Sexy For Him 2 Cologne by Victoria's Secret for Men Sean John Unforgivable Hugo Energise DKNY Light Blue Lacoste Ralph Lauren's Polo I got the list and suggestions from people in this blog: http://hubpages.com/hub/Mens-Cologne-5-Sexy-Scents haha If I go sniffing people, they'd think I was a weirdo. Quote

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Re: Guys only thread

List of men's fragrances that girls/women like:

Obsession by Calvin Klein
Eternity by Calvin Klein
Marc Jacobs
Drakkar Noir Cologne by Guy Laroche
Very Sexy For Him 2 Cologne by Victoria's Secret for Men
Sean John Unforgivable
Hugo Energise
DKNY Light Blue
Lacoste
Ralph Lauren's Polo

I got the list and suggestions from people in this blog:

http://hubpages.com/hub/Mens-Cologne-5-Sexy-Scents

haha If I go sniffing people, they'd think I was a weirdo.

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5/27/2009 10:09 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread sethsale wrote: serenity5 wrote: I got a question for you guys. What's your favorite fragrance on a girl? I've always liked lavender and lilac. (I really like lilac) Not really a fan of cinnamon or some lotions that leave an oily smell. I hate it when perfume is really strong though. Makes it hard to concentrate. Smell isn't a primary attractant for me, but it can help. We need a what girls like thread. Chicks can sometimes be a mystery. :) I know a list since sometimes I read the beauty boards, and the girls would list some of their favorite men's fragrances. I don't like strong fragrances either. I like clean scents or the clean out of the shower scent. I guess I like soapy scents. I used to wear this men's fragrance because it smells fresh; it's called Gendarme. The scent doesn't last, but they came out with a stronger kind. Quote

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sethsale wrote:
serenity5 wrote:

I got a question for you guys. What's your favorite fragrance on a girl?

I've always liked lavender and lilac. (I really like lilac) Not really a fan of cinnamon or some lotions that leave an oily smell.

I hate it when perfume is really strong though. Makes it hard to concentrate. Smell isn't a primary attractant for me, but it can help.

We need a what girls like thread. Chicks can sometimes be a mystery. :)

I know a list since sometimes I read the beauty boards, and the girls would list some of their favorite men's fragrances.

I don't like strong fragrances either. I like clean scents or the clean out of the shower scent. I guess I like soapy scents.

I used to wear this men's fragrance because it smells fresh; it's called Gendarme. The scent doesn't last, but they came out with a stronger kind.

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5/27/2009 8:55 PM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: I got a question for you guys. What's your favorite fragrance on a girl? I've always liked lavender and lilac. (I really like lilac) Not really a fan of cinnamon or some lotions that leave an oily smell. I hate it when perfume is really strong though. Makes it hard to concentrate. Smell isn't a primary attractant for me, but it can help. We need a what girls like thread. Chicks can sometimes be a mystery. :) Quote

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serenity5 wrote:

I got a question for you guys. What's your favorite fragrance on a girl?

I've always liked lavender and lilac. (I really like lilac) Not really a fan of cinnamon or some lotions that leave an oily smell.

I hate it when perfume is really strong though. Makes it hard to concentrate. Smell isn't a primary attractant for me, but it can help.

We need a what girls like thread. Chicks can sometimes be a mystery. :)

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5/27/2009 8:03 PM (GMT-08:00)
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I got a question for you guys. What's your favorite fragrance on a girl?

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5/26/2009 8:38 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread Jamison.Adrien wrote: i wonder where Prince gets his clothes! hes so tiny and cute! Most likely he has custom made clothes. Quote

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i wonder where Prince gets his clothes! hes so tiny and cute!

Most likely he has custom made clothes.

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i wonder where Prince gets his clothes! hes so tiny and cute!

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5/24/2009 5:05 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread There's a clothes site called TopMan. It's a UK site, but they also have one for the US. www.topman.com Their trousers section offers size 26 in the waist. Damn. That's skinny. I wonder where Imaad gets his jeans. He got sticks for legs! Quote

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There's a clothes site called TopMan. It's a UK site, but they also have one for the US.

www.topman.com

Their trousers section offers size 26 in the waist. Damn. That's skinny.

I wonder where Imaad gets his jeans. He got sticks for legs!

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5/24/2009 12:26 PM (GMT-08:00)
PRLJM42 PRLJM42 Joined: 1/13/2006 Posts: 1339 Location: Arkham, US	Re: Guys only thread well if nick is that skinny i wonder where he gets pants. i usually never see anything under 28, and those are hard enough to find. Quote

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well if nick is that skinny i wonder where he gets pants. i usually never see anything under 28, and those are hard enough to find.

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5/24/2009 10:14 AM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread sethsale wrote: Yeah, I've always heard it was easier for guys to lose weight than girls. I do a lot of walking/running... Ideally 6 miles of walking a night. If I don't have the time for that, I try to jog as much of 2-3 miles as I can. I live out by a park, so I don't have to drive to jog at some place nice. I really don't want to become one of those guys with a huge belly when I'm older... I'd sooner stop eating than get to that point. I've already cut my average daily calories down to 1500 or lower when I can. The only issue I have is maintaining upper body strength. I try and do as many push-ups and weight lifting as I can, so hopefully I'll be in pretty good shape in a few months. People recommend not going too low in calories because then you'd go into starvation mode. 1500 sounds about right. Weight lifting is a good exercise. I remember in high school we had to do push ups and chin ups. I tried the chin up and could never even get to halfway there. haha Quote

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Yeah, I've always heard it was easier for guys to lose weight than girls.

I do a lot of walking/running... Ideally 6 miles of walking a night. If I don't have the time for that, I try to jog as much of 2-3 miles as I can. I live out by a park, so I don't have to drive to jog at some place nice.

I really don't want to become one of those guys with a huge belly when I'm older... I'd sooner stop eating than get to that point. I've already cut my average daily calories down to 1500 or lower when I can. The only issue I have is maintaining upper body strength. I try and do as many push-ups and weight lifting as I can, so hopefully I'll be in pretty good shape in a few months.

People recommend not going too low in calories because then you'd go into starvation mode. 1500 sounds about right.

Weight lifting is a good exercise. I remember in high school we had to do push ups and chin ups. I tried the chin up and could never even get to halfway there. haha

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5/23/2009 8:23 PM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Guys only thread Yeah, I've always heard it was easier for guys to lose weight than girls. I do a lot of walking/running... Ideally 6 miles of walking a night. If I don't have the time for that, I try to jog as much of 2-3 miles as I can. I live out by a park, so I don't have to drive to jog at some place nice. I really don't want to become one of those guys with a huge belly when I'm older... I'd sooner stop eating than get to that point. I've already cut my average daily calories down to 1500 or lower when I can. The only issue I have is maintaining upper body strength. I try and do as many push-ups and weight lifting as I can, so hopefully I'll be in pretty good shape in a few months. Quote

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Yeah, I've always heard it was easier for guys to lose weight than girls.

I do a lot of walking/running... Ideally 6 miles of walking a night. If I don't have the time for that, I try to jog as much of 2-3 miles as I can. I live out by a park, so I don't have to drive to jog at some place nice.

I really don't want to become one of those guys with a huge belly when I'm older... I'd sooner stop eating than get to that point. I've already cut my average daily calories down to 1500 or lower when I can. The only issue I have is maintaining upper body strength. I try and do as many push-ups and weight lifting as I can, so hopefully I'll be in pretty good shape in a few months.

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5/22/2009 6:07 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread And exercise! You don't really need to lose that much. I really hope to jog more. I used to run on the treadmill for an hour everyday. I lost 10 pounds. Once I stopped, the pounds came back! Ah well, I'm 15 pounds heavier than my ideal weight. Still, you guys have it easier when it comes to losing weight. Quote

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And exercise! You don't really need to lose that much.

I really hope to jog more. I used to run on the treadmill for an hour everyday. I lost 10 pounds. Once I stopped, the pounds came back! Ah well, I'm 15 pounds heavier than my ideal weight.

Still, you guys have it easier when it comes to losing weight.

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5/22/2009 4:20 PM (GMT-08:00)
sethsale sethsale Joined: 5/4/2009 Posts: 963 Location: Central Illinois, IL, US	Re: Guys only thread Next thread, "What's your waist size?" :) I'm 32-33 depending on how much I eat or drink (I drink tons of water) the previous day. Anyone with a waist under 28 is either pretty damn skinny or short. Good to know about the, "women don't like skinny guys" thing. I'm currently dieting, and originally planned to go down to 140 from 165. I think I'll stop at 150 or 155 instead... Quote

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Next thread, "What's your waist size?" :)

I'm 32-33 depending on how much I eat or drink (I drink tons of water) the previous day. Anyone with a waist under 28 is either pretty damn skinny or short.

Good to know about the, "women don't like skinny guys" thing. I'm currently dieting, and originally planned to go down to 140 from 165. I think I'll stop at 150 or 155 instead...

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5/22/2009 3:37 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread victhebrick wrote: Ha ha less than 27... I wear 34 and my waist are not skinnier than my hips!!! Now im jealous!!! You're a size medium. I have 27" waist. I have a feeling Nick and Imaad have 25" and 24" waist, respectively. I dislike them. haha Quote

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Ha ha less than 27... I wear 34 and my waist are not skinnier than my hips!!!

Now im jealous!!!

You're a size medium.

I have 27" waist. I have a feeling Nick and Imaad have 25" and 24" waist, respectively. I dislike them. haha

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5/22/2009 3:11 PM (GMT-08:00)
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Ha ha less than 27... I wear 34 and my waist are not skinnier than my hips!!!

Now im jealous!!!

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5/22/2009 12:14 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread PRLJM42 wrote: im skinny......i guess that answers why i have terrible luck with girls. i always assumed it was because girls were jealous and hated me for being super skinny. i actually have hips....dont know if i should be sharing this but oh well, haha. my waist is slimmer than my hips. The honest truth: it is jealousy. haha The annoying ones are the ones who can eat and don't have to exercise. Hmmm. What is the size of your waist? It better not be less than 27". Quote

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im skinny......i guess that answers why i have terrible luck with girls. i always assumed it was because girls were jealous and hated me for being super skinny. i actually have hips....dont know if i should be sharing this but oh well, haha. my waist is slimmer than my hips.

The honest truth: it is jealousy. haha The annoying ones are the ones who can eat and don't have to exercise.

Hmmm. What is the size of your waist? It better not be less than 27".

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5/22/2009 12:11 PM (GMT-08:00)
PRLJM42 PRLJM42 Joined: 1/13/2006 Posts: 1339 Location: Arkham, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: I was listening to the radio. They had a contest to figure out this survey. It was what physical trait in guys that most women avoid or will not date guys with this physical trait. The guy who called in and got it right said,"Guys who weigh less than women." lol Skinny guys are avoided. hahaha So bald, shorter, and heavier men have it better than skinny guys. hahaha im skinny......i guess that answers why i have terrible luck with girls. i always assumed it was because girls were jealous and hated me for being super skinny. i actually have hips....dont know if i should be sharing this but oh well, haha. my waist is slimmer than my hips. Quote

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I was listening to the radio. They had a contest to figure out this survey. It was what physical trait in guys that most women avoid or will not date guys with this physical trait.

The guy who called in and got it right said,"Guys who weigh less than women."

lol Skinny guys are avoided. hahaha So bald, shorter, and heavier men have it better than skinny guys. hahaha

im skinny......i guess that answers why i have terrible luck with girls. i always assumed it was because girls were jealous and hated me for being super skinny. i actually have hips....dont know if i should be sharing this but oh well, haha. my waist is slimmer than my hips.

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5/22/2009 11:57 AM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread I was listening to the radio. They had a contest to figure out this survey. It was what physical trait in guys that most women avoid or will not date guys with this physical trait. The guy who called in and got it right said,"Guys who weigh less than women." lol Skinny guys are avoided. hahaha So bald, shorter, and heavier men have it better than skinny guys. hahaha Quote

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I was listening to the radio. They had a contest to figure out this survey. It was what physical trait in guys that most women avoid or will not date guys with this physical trait.

The guy who called in and got it right said,"Guys who weigh less than women."

lol Skinny guys are avoided. hahaha So bald, shorter, and heavier men have it better than skinny guys. hahaha

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5/13/2009 8:35 PM (GMT-08:00)
victhebrick victhebrick Joined: 6/28/2008 Posts: 596 Location: Highland, CA, US	Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: victhebrick wrote: I only hug my family membes and friends of the opposite sex that I have known for a long time, but I totally understand when people get all in your face to speak. You can feel their hot breath.. so nasty!! So guys don't hug their male friends. lol Actually, I do see guys hug their male friends. It looked like a brotherly hug. Me and my best friend dont hug, it's actually a hand shake with a pat in the back. To be considered a hug you need to use both arms. Quote

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victhebrick wrote:
I only hug my family membes and friends of the opposite sex that I have known for a long time, but I totally understand when people get all in your face to speak. You can feel their hot breath.. so nasty!!

So guys don't hug their male friends. lol

Actually, I do see guys hug their male friends. It looked like a brotherly hug.

Me and my best friend dont hug, it's actually a hand shake with a pat in the back.

To be considered a hug you need to use both arms.

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serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread victhebrick wrote: I only hug my family membes and friends of the opposite sex that I have known for a long time, but I totally understand when people get all in your face to speak. You can feel their hot breath.. so nasty!! So guys don't hug their male friends. lol Actually, I do see guys hug their male friends. It looked like a brotherly hug. Quote

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I only hug my family membes and friends of the opposite sex that I have known for a long time, but I totally understand when people get all in your face to speak. You can feel their hot breath.. so nasty!!

So guys don't hug their male friends. lol

Actually, I do see guys hug their male friends. It looked like a brotherly hug.

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5/13/2009 8:27 PM (GMT-08:00)
victhebrick victhebrick Joined: 6/28/2008 Posts: 596 Location: Highland, CA, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: vic, you must be the kind of person who hugs people. lol I'm like PRLJM42, in that I prefer waving at people. I need my own comfort space. I don't like it when people get in my face. It's like, dude, you're inches away from my face. Can you give me some room? haha My mom's friends came over to visit from France. When they left, I had to greet them bye by kissing both side of their cheeks, and them kissing both sides of my cheeks. It was the awkward experience ever. Well, next to getting your hand kissed by your neighbor. Of course, worse is being kissed off guard. It's just that the kissing sensation is weird. It just feels weird. I always end up screaming inside my mind. haha I only hug my family membes and friends of the opposite sex that I have known for a long time, but I totally understand when people get all in your face to speak. You can feel their hot breath.. so nasty!! Quote

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vic, you must be the kind of person who hugs people. lol

I'm like PRLJM42, in that I prefer waving at people. I need my own comfort space. I don't like it when people get in my face. It's like, dude, you're inches away from my face. Can you give me some room? haha

My mom's friends came over to visit from France. When they left, I had to greet them bye by kissing both side of their cheeks, and them kissing both sides of my cheeks. It was the awkward experience ever. Well, next to getting your hand kissed by your neighbor. Of course, worse is being kissed off guard. It's just that the kissing sensation is weird. It just feels weird. I always end up screaming inside my mind. haha

I only hug my family membes and friends of the opposite sex that I have known for a long time, but I totally understand when people get all in your face to speak. You can feel their hot breath.. so nasty!!

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5/13/2009 6:59 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread vic, you must be the kind of person who hugs people. lol I'm like PRLJM42, in that I prefer waving at people. I need my own comfort space. I don't like it when people get in my face. It's like, dude, you're inches away from my face. Can you give me some room? haha My mom's friends came over to visit from France. When they left, I had to greet them bye by kissing both side of their cheeks, and them kissing both sides of my cheeks. It was the awkward experience ever. Well, next to getting your hand kissed by your neighbor. Of course, worse is being kissed off guard. It's just that the kissing sensation is weird. It just feels weird. I always end up screaming inside my mind. haha Quote

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vic, you must be the kind of person who hugs people. lol

I'm like PRLJM42, in that I prefer waving at people. I need my own comfort space. I don't like it when people get in my face. It's like, dude, you're inches away from my face. Can you give me some room? haha

My mom's friends came over to visit from France. When they left, I had to greet them bye by kissing both side of their cheeks, and them kissing both sides of my cheeks. It was the awkward experience ever. Well, next to getting your hand kissed by your neighbor. Of course, worse is being kissed off guard. It's just that the kissing sensation is weird. It just feels weird. I always end up screaming inside my mind. haha

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5/13/2009 10:40 AM (GMT-08:00)
PRLJM42 PRLJM42 Joined: 1/13/2006 Posts: 1339 Location: Arkham, US	Re: Guys only thread i hate hugs, i have issues with touching people i dont know. i have a hard enough time shaking hands with people. cant we just wave to people??? works for me. its the thought that counts right... Quote

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i hate hugs, i have issues with touching people i dont know. i have a hard enough time shaking hands with people. cant we just wave to people??? works for me. its the thought that counts right...

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5/13/2009 2:00 AM (GMT-08:00)
victhebrick victhebrick Joined: 6/28/2008 Posts: 596 Location: Highland, CA, US	Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: victhebrick wrote: What if you knew the guy for a while? If you just meet the guy then that would be weird. I give awful hugs. I used to be the kind of person who doesn't like human contact. It wasn't until in my 20s when friends introduced me to the greeting hug. When people meet, they hug. So that threw me off. My hug is bad because I don't get close to the person. And I usually pat them on the back for some reason. haha Ha ha.. Serenity is the worst hugger ever!!! Since junior high it would be a norm to give the opposite sex a hug when first encountering them (friends of course). Some people are just not affectionate like Elliot Reed from Scrubs.. she doesn't even like to much human contact during sex. I miss Scrubs.. The last episode was so sad. You can watch it on the Scrubs website! Quote

5/13/2009 2:00 AM (GMT-08:00)

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread

serenity5 wrote:
victhebrick wrote:
What if you knew the guy for a while?

If you just meet the guy then that would be weird.

I give awful hugs. I used to be the kind of person who doesn't like human contact.

It wasn't until in my 20s when friends introduced me to the greeting hug. When people meet, they hug. So that threw me off.

My hug is bad because I don't get close to the person. And I usually pat them on the back for some reason. haha

Ha ha.. Serenity is the worst hugger ever!!!

Since junior high it would be a norm to give the opposite sex a hug when first encountering them (friends of course). Some people are just not affectionate like Elliot Reed from Scrubs.. she doesn't even like to much human contact during sex.

I miss Scrubs.. The last episode was so sad. You can watch it on the Scrubs website!

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5/13/2009 1:48 AM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread victhebrick wrote: What if you knew the guy for a while? If you just meet the guy then that would be weird. I give awful hugs. I used to be the kind of person who doesn't like human contact. It wasn't until in my 20s when friends introduced me to the greeting hug. When people meet, they hug. So that threw me off. My hug is bad because I don't get close to the person. And I usually pat them on the back for some reason. haha Quote

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread

victhebrick wrote:
What if you knew the guy for a while?

If you just meet the guy then that would be weird.

I give awful hugs. I used to be the kind of person who doesn't like human contact.

It wasn't until in my 20s when friends introduced me to the greeting hug. When people meet, they hug. So that threw me off.

My hug is bad because I don't get close to the person. And I usually pat them on the back for some reason. haha

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5/13/2009 1:33 AM (GMT-08:00)
victhebrick victhebrick Joined: 6/28/2008 Posts: 596 Location: Highland, CA, US	Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: victhebrick wrote: Im sure females get uncomfortable when a male is crying his eyes out and spilling his guts. Maybe later it would seem sensitive, but at first kinda of akward!! No. I think most will ask what was wrong and will listen. It won't be awkward. Now if he were to ask for a hug, I'd say that would be awkward! What if you knew the guy for a while? If you just meet the guy then that would be weird. Quote

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serenity5 wrote:
victhebrick wrote:
Im sure females get uncomfortable when a male is crying his eyes out and spilling his guts. Maybe later it would seem sensitive, but at first kinda of akward!!

No. I think most will ask what was wrong and will listen. It won't be awkward. Now if he were to ask for a hug, I'd say that would be awkward!

What if you knew the guy for a while?

If you just meet the guy then that would be weird.

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5/2/2009 11:12 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread victhebrick wrote: Im sure females get uncomfortable when a male is crying his eyes out and spilling his guts. Maybe later it would seem sensitive, but at first kinda of akward!! No. I think most will ask what was wrong and will listen. It won't be awkward. Now if he were to ask for a hug, I'd say that would be awkward! Quote

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Re: Re: Re: Guys only thread

victhebrick wrote:
Im sure females get uncomfortable when a male is crying his eyes out and spilling his guts. Maybe later it would seem sensitive, but at first kinda of akward!!

No. I think most will ask what was wrong and will listen. It won't be awkward. Now if he were to ask for a hug, I'd say that would be awkward!

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5/2/2009 7:10 PM (GMT-08:00)
victhebrick victhebrick Joined: 6/28/2008 Posts: 596 Location: Highland, CA, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread serenity5 wrote: I got another question for you guys. Why is it that some guys get uncomfortable when a female cries in front of them? My father gets uncomfortable when either my mother or I cry. lol Well, sometimes my mother and I get emotional. hehe I don't cry in public though. At least for me, I hate to see someone so vulnerable especially the opposite sex. You have to be careful in everything you say to not make the situation any worse. Im sure females get uncomfortable when a male is crying his eyes out and spilling his guts. Maybe later it would seem sensitive, but at first kinda of akward!! Quote

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Re: Re: Guys only thread

serenity5 wrote:

I got another question for you guys.

Why is it that some guys get uncomfortable when a female cries in front of them?

My father gets uncomfortable when either my mother or I cry. lol Well, sometimes my mother and I get emotional. hehe I don't cry in public though.

At least for me, I hate to see someone so vulnerable especially the opposite sex. You have to be careful in everything you say to not make the situation any worse.

Im sure females get uncomfortable when a male is crying his eyes out and spilling his guts. Maybe later it would seem sensitive, but at first kinda of akward!!

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5/2/2009 5:28 PM (GMT-08:00)
serenity5 serenity5 Joined: 8/30/2004 Posts: 2580 Location: Southern California, US	Re: Guys only thread I got another question for you guys. Why is it that some guys get uncomfortable when a female cries in front of them? My father gets uncomfortable when either my mother or I cry. lol Well, sometimes my mother and I get emotional. hehe I don't cry in public though. Quote

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Re: Guys only thread

I got another question for you guys.

Why is it that some guys get uncomfortable when a female cries in front of them?

My father gets uncomfortable when either my mother or I cry. lol Well, sometimes my mother and I get emotional. hehe I don't cry in public though.

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5/2/2009 3:28 AM (GMT-08:00)
PRLJM42 PRLJM42 Joined: 1/13/2006 Posts: 1339 Location: Arkham, US	Re: Re: Guys only thread Jamison.Adrien wrote: Next thread is going to be titled " Hermaphrodites Only" haha ok, ill probably post in that one too. Quote

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Jamison.Adrien wrote:
Next thread is going to be titled " Hermaphrodites Only"

haha ok, ill probably post in that one too.

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Next thread is going to be titled " Hermaphrodites Only"

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5/1/2009 3:30 PM (GMT-08:00)

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It depends if it affects the relationship. If you are always accusing them of cheating than it becomes an issue and a recipe for disaster.

I try to hide my jealousy as well from the individual. I believe it's human nature to feel a little competetive with the same sex sometimes, but I wont make an issue of it unless it starts to get physical. Bottom line, trust is an important factor in any realtionship, but once you lose it, it's nearly impossible to re-gaine it again.

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PRLJM42 wrote:
victhebrick wrote:
PRLJM42 wrote:
serenity5 wrote:

I got a question.

What is your meaning of cheating? Like if she flirts with another guy?? Or it has to be more than that.

sex. but if shes kissing another guy that isnt cool either.

In my class we were debating if cybersex was considered cheating which I totally agree. You start to spend less time with you supposed better half and fantasize about your cyberlover.

If I was a husband married for 30 years and started to flirt with every female in this board what would you think of me.. a total perve right. Actually maybe PRJM42 would think its pretty hilarious, but for the most part, not cool.

if you did it.....yeah it would be funny haha.

but yeah i agree once you start paying more attention to someone else youre walking a fine line. but if its just a random thing it will take more. like if she just has sex thats no good. but shes out with friends and gets kiss by some random guy id be like what was that about??? but its not the same, if its a one time random deal and she sees him all the time. if she hung out with another guy every few days and kissed id take that as cheating.

Somehow I knew someone would say sex constitutes as cheating. haha

Cybersex is cheating without real sex.

vic, if you were married and flirting with gals on the board, I wouldn't think you were a perv. I think flirting is ok and innocent. It's a boost to the ego, sometimes. Besides flirting on a board isn't as bad as flirting someone offline in person. Oh, I don't know. haha

But what if she's spending more time with her friend who happens to be male. Is it emotional cheating?

Well, if I were in a relationship, I'd trust the guy. If he has friends who are female and want to hang out, I wouldn't mind. A little flirting is ok, hmm, as long as I'm not around. haha I have a tendency toward being jealous sometimes. I just hate the thought of a guy knowing I'm jealous over him.

Is being jealous bad?

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